Now people in significant numbers are beginning to compare themselves with others. They harbor the idea that comparison can not only make them realize the differences between them and others, but also make them strive. They retreat surpassing others as success.现在很多人都拿自己和别人比较。他们怀着这样的想法，对比不仅能让他们意识到自己与他人之间的差异，也能使他们更加努力。他们把超越他人作为成功。Opinions vary from person to person. Some people take the attitude that comparing ourselves with others does have the passive effects to our life. On the one hand, if you compare yourself with the one who is weaker than you, you will be so satisfied with the current situation that you will lose the ambition. On the other hand, compared with the ones stronger than you, you can not find the confidence.不同的人对此有不同的看法。有些人认为把自己与他人相比对我们的生活有消极影响。一方面，如果你把自己和比你弱的人相比，你会满足于现状，从而丢失了野心。另一方面，与那些比你强的人相比，就会失去信心。All in all, every coin has two sides. So we should not compare us with others blindly. But, we can compare ourselves with ourselves before. Only in this way, can we find out our advantages and weakness.总之，每个硬币都有两面。所以我们不应该盲目与他人对比。但是，我们可以与以前的自己相比。只有这样，我们才能发现自己的优点和弱点。