When we focus too much on our endgame, we can miss the fun of the jour
ney. We can miss the detour that would take us somewhere even more rewarding.如果我们太过于在意结果就会错过过程中的快乐。绕道而行或许能带我们抵达更好玩的地方。
In reality , nothing is ever as simple as the label we give it. But she made me realize that if I didn't define who I was and what I wanted , somebody else would.
现实中的事,不会像我们想象的那么简单。但她提醒了我,如果不找准自己的位置,别人就会按照他们的想法给我定位。
I want yo
u to pursue your dreams...and figure out who you are and who you wanna be. 我希望你追逐自己的梦想,找到自我并明确你想成为的人。放弃过往的人事是困难的,因为你在他们身上倾注了太多。放手会令人胆怯,但它也可以是种解放,甚至是通往幸福的必要条件。如果不放手,你会发现自己身处一个黑暗的地方,对自己最糟的恶习无能为力。有时候,如果我们真爱一个人,我们必须欣然放手。